I am sure if you are like me, the traditions of the Christmas season is what makes this time of year so special. When I think back on my childhood, there are very few presents I remember, but there are those family traditions that I will never forget, and I have enjoyed passing on to my children. Our family is HUGE into traditions. We have traditions for nearly every holiday: ground hogs day, the longest day of the year, St. Patricks Day, Valentines, Halloween, Labor Day, etc. You name the holiday, our family (extended and immediate) have traditions for each one that make them fun. I am sure you are the same way too! I love asking people their favorite family traditions because you get to hear about the way people spend the holidays with their families and things that make this time of year special. I wanted to just take a minute and give you a glimpse into this holiday season with my family. There is nothing fancy about anything we do. In fact, you could find cutsey-tutsy ideas over on Pintrest if you want the real crafty ideas. However, I feel our traditions offer family’s a real and simple way to help make this time of year more special. Besides me sharing our traditions, I would LOVE to hear some of your traditions. Feel free to leave a comment with some of your family’s traditions and I’m sure I will get many wonderful ideas from you too!
Last year I blogged about several of our favorite traditions we have done for nearly 14 years now (my husband’s ‘light turning on ceremony’, Christmas-Adam sleepover under the tree, Gingerbread houses made with leftover Halloween candy, sibling gift card exchange dinner & date night (a total favorite!), fancy Chicken Cordon Blue Christmas Eve Dinner, Sub for Santa drop off, etc.) There are too many to count, but this year I wanted to share a couple NEW favorite traditions that have really helped put the true meaning of Christmas back into this season for my family.
We have loved this Christmas Advent Calendar. I put together last year that has correlating scriptures for each day of December. I switched up the scriptures a little from the ones she had online, but the kids have really had fun looking up scriptures each night and it’s been a great way to get discussions going about Christ’s birth and what it means to us. I also added a few nights where we sing certain Christmas songs around the piano. My family is far from musically inclined (in fact, I am totally tone-deaf), but we have had fun singing some of our favorite songs around the piano. It’s been fun to see even our 11 year old boy reluctantly come over and sing every now and then.
We had several cousins with us that night and so each child had 2-3 bags to hand out to anyone they saw that was in need. It wasn’t only a few feet from our car that the kids noticed a man sitting up against a lamp post. They all ran over to him, gave him the package, wished him a Merry Christmas and ran back to the group. I have to admit I was a little embarrassed and worried about how someone would respond to this group of rowdy children. However, the man told them over and over how grateful he was and quickly ripped open the bag to see what was inside. This was just what the children needed to get their excitement levels up! They couldn’t wait until we found someone else they could share a bag with. We were able to give out only 7 bags that night, but each time it was such a special experience we were all in tears and went home feeling such a debt of gratitude to a loving Heavenly Father who has blessed us with so much. To think of how much this simple Ziploc bag of goodies meant to these people was so humbling. To come back to our comfortable and warm home, soft beds, clean sheets, pillows, clean clothes, family, etc. it brought tears to all of our eyes as we realized how blessed we were. It is sad how much we take for granted on a daily basis. This experience helped me and my children, and the rest of our family, realize that we need to do more. There are so many people suffering and needing an extra hand, and words of encouragement, we all re-dedicated ourselves to find more ways to serve.
The great thing about these kits is the ones we didn’t give out (my sister went the next weekend and was able to give out 11 in just a short time), we have kept in our car and anytime we see someone with a sign, or someone who seems to be suffering, we give them a bag and wish them Merry Christmas. It has been so neat to see their eyes light up with excitement and gratitude for such a simple gift.
Infact, we loved this tradition so much our neighborhood had a Christmas breakfast and the children were able to put together over 50 more kits to be brought to the homeless shelter. They decorated the totes the items went in, helped fill them with the items people donated and the youth will be bringing these bags to the shelter before the end of the year. Our neighborhood has loved the fact we don’t do neighborhood gifts and instead participate in an annual service project. I LOVE not having to deal with Christmas goodies, plates, delivering, etc. The money is much better spent towards a good cause 😉
One last tradition that my sisters have done for years that I think is so cute is their children put together little gift bags with goodies and a little note that says congratulations on the best Christmas lights in town. They then drive around looking for their favorite decorated homes and then the children go up to the door and give them the treats with their little ‘award’ for best lights. My kids go with my sister every year and think this tradition is so fun. Simple, yet a great way to spread Christmas joy 😉